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Aspirational SeriesLife Wisdom Series

Aspirational Series

Qualities to grow — pick the one you want to build and the advisor will meet you there.

You Be Happy Too

I want to grow in: Expressing GratitudeI'd like to build: Cultivating OptimismHelp me strengthen: Avoiding Overthinking and Social ComparisonI want to develop: Practicing Acts of KindnessI want to grow in: Nurturing Social RelationshipsI'd like to build: Developing Strategies for CopingHelp me strengthen: Learning to ForgiveI want to develop: Increasing Flow ExperiencesI want to grow in: Savoring Life's JoysI'd like to build: Committing to My GoalsHelp me strengthen: Practicing Religion and SpiritualityI want to develop: Taking Care of My Body

You Be A Cool Mentor Too

I want to grow in: Honest, Trustworthy, RespectfulI'd like to build: Self-confident, Self-motivatedHelp me strengthen: Good Listener and CommunicatorI want to develop: Patient, Allows for MistakesI want to grow in: Knowledgeable about OrganizationI'd like to build: Invested in Student's GoalsHelp me strengthen: Versatile and FlexibleI want to develop: A Teacher and LearnerI want to grow in: Information DistributorI'd like to build: Reads and Understands OthersHelp me strengthen: Judges Fairly and ObjectivelyI want to develop: Provides Structure, Develop VisionI want to grow in: Application and Feedback, LearningI'd like to build: Fosters Open CommunicationHelp me strengthen: Models Leadership Qualities

You Be A Good Mentee Too

I want to grow in: Positive, Enthusiastic AttitudeI'd like to build: Learns from Experience and Wisdom of OthersHelp me strengthen: Teachable, Welcomes Critical FeedbackI want to develop: Works HardI want to grow in: Asks Questions, Asks for HelpI'd like to build: ResponsibleHelp me strengthen: Works on Relationship with MentorI want to develop: Earns Benefits of MentoringI want to grow in: Accepts Mentor As Is - Strong Plus Weak

You Be A Great Coach Too

I want to grow in: IndustriousnessI'd like to build: FriendshipHelp me strengthen: LoyaltyI want to develop: CooperationI want to grow in: EnthusiasmI'd like to build: Self-controlHelp me strengthen: AlertnessI want to develop: InitiativeI want to grow in: IntentnessI'd like to build: ConditionHelp me strengthen: SkillI want to develop: Team SpiritI want to grow in: PoiseI'd like to build: ConfidenceHelp me strengthen: Competitive Greatness

You Be A Leader Too

I want to grow in: Leadership

You Be A Millionaire Too

I want to grow in: Dream Big DreamsI'd like to build: Clear Sense of DirectionHelp me strengthen: See Myself as Self EmployedI want to develop: Do What You Love to DoI want to grow in: Commit to ExcellenceI'd like to build: Develop a Workaholic MentalityHelp me strengthen: Dedicate to Lifelong LearningI want to develop: Pay Myself FirstI want to grow in: Learn the Detail of My BusinessI'd like to build: Dedicate Myself to ServiceHelp me strengthen: Be Impeccably HonestI want to develop: Prioritize and ConcentrateI want to grow in: Speed and DependabilityI'd like to build: Climb from Peak to PeakHelp me strengthen: Practice Self DisciplineI want to develop: Unlock My Inborn CreativityI want to grow in: Get Around the Right PeopleI'd like to build: Take Care of Physical HealthHelp me strengthen: Be Decisive and Action OrientedI want to develop: Never Consider FailureI want to grow in: Persistence and Determination

You Be An Entrepreneur Too

I want to grow in: Adaptability - Cope with New, Solve Problems CreativelyI'd like to build: Competitiveness - Compete with Others and Test OneselfHelp me strengthen: Confidence - Believe You Can Reach My GoalsI want to develop: Discipline - Stay Focused and Stick to ItI want to grow in: Drive - Desire, Work Hard to Accomplish GoalsI'd like to build: Honesty - Tell the Truth, Deal with People FairlyHelp me strengthen: Organization - Order Life Tasks and InformationI want to develop: Perseverance - Refuse to Quit, Work for GoalsI want to grow in: Persuasiveness - Convince People of My IdeasI'd like to build: Risk Taking - Courage to Take RisksHelp me strengthen: Understanding - Listen and Empathize with PeopleI want to develop: Vision - Always See the End Result of My Goals

You Be An Optimalist Too

I want to grow in: Accepting FailureI'd like to build: Accepting EmotionsHelp me strengthen: Accepting SuccessI want to develop: Growth Mindset

You Be A Success Too

I want to grow in: Success AwarenessI'd like to build: VisionHelp me strengthen: FocusI want to develop: AttitudeI want to grow in: DisciplineI'd like to build: PersistenceHelp me strengthen: PurposeI want to develop: Action

You Be A Successful Student Too

I want to grow in: Accepts Personal ResponsibilityI'd like to build: Discovers a Motivating PurposeHelp me strengthen: Takes Effective ActionI want to develop: Builds Mutually Supportive RelationshipsI want to grow in: Gains Heightened Self AwarenessI'd like to build: Becomes Life Long LearnerHelp me strengthen: Develops Emotional MaturityI want to develop: Believes in Self

You Be A Super Achiever Too

I want to grow in: CharacterI'd like to build: ResponsibilityHelp me strengthen: Goal and PassionI want to develop: OptimismI want to grow in: FocusI'd like to build: EnduranceHelp me strengthen: Abundance MentalityI want to develop: Constant LearningI want to grow in: ContentmentI'd like to build: People BelieversHelp me strengthen: BalanceI want to develop: DisciplineI want to grow in: Self GrowthI'd like to build: HumilityHelp me strengthen: Courage

You Be A Thinker Too

I want to grow in: Thinking

You Be A Top CEO Too

I want to grow in: Secure in SelfI'd like to build: In Control of AttitudeHelp me strengthen: TenaciousI want to develop: Constantly ImprovingI want to grow in: Honest and EthicalI'd like to build: Thinking Before TalkingHelp me strengthen: OriginalI want to develop: Publicly ModestI want to grow in: Aware of StyleI'd like to build: Gutsy, a Little WildHelp me strengthen: HumorousI want to develop: A Tad TheatricalI want to grow in: Detail OrientedI'd like to build: Good at Their Job and Willing to LeadHelp me strengthen: Fighters for Their PeopleI want to develop: Willing to Admit Mistakes, Yet are UnapologeticI want to grow in: StraightforwardI'd like to build: Being NiceHelp me strengthen: InquisitiveI want to develop: CompetitiveI want to grow in: FlexibleI'd like to build: Good Storytellers

You Be A Top Sport Achiever Too

I want to grow in: Have a DreamI'd like to build: Have Specific Achievable ObjectivesHelp me strengthen: Preview AchievementsI want to develop: Cultivate a Passion, a Desire to SucceedI want to grow in: Have a Good MentorI'd like to build: Positive Attitude Towards Problems and FailuresHelp me strengthen: Take Action

You Be Doing Good Too

I want to grow in: Celebration - Turn Gratitude into ActionI'd like to build: Generativity - Help Others GrowHelp me strengthen: Forgiveness - Set Myself FreeI want to develop: Courage - Speak Up, Speak OutI want to grow in: Humor - Connect with JoyI'd like to build: Respect - Look Deeper and Find ValueHelp me strengthen: Compassion - Feel for OthersI want to develop: Loyalty - Love Across TimeI want to grow in: Listening - Offer Deep PresenceI'd like to build: Creativity - Invent and Innovate

You Be Feeling Well Too

I want to grow in: Love and WarmthI'd like to build: Appreciation and GratitudeHelp me strengthen: CuriosityI want to develop: Excitement and PassionI want to grow in: DeterminationI'd like to build: FlexibilityHelp me strengthen: ConfidenceI want to develop: CheerfulnessI want to grow in: VitalityI'd like to build: ContributionHelp me strengthen: Overcoming FearI want to develop: Overcoming Anger

You Be Flourishing Too

I want to grow in: Overcoming the NegativeI'd like to build: Building on the Positive

You Be Fruitful Too

I want to grow in: LoveI'd like to build: JoyHelp me strengthen: PeaceI want to develop: Long-Suffering, PatienceI want to grow in: Gentleness, KindnessI'd like to build: GoodnessHelp me strengthen: FaithI want to develop: Meekness, HumilityI want to grow in: Self-Control, Self-Management

You Be In SHAPE Too

I want to grow in: Spiritual GiftsI'd like to build: Heart's DesireHelp me strengthen: AbilityI want to develop: PersonalityI want to grow in: Experience

You Be In The Zone Too

I want to grow in: Perform from Highest IntentionsI'd like to build: Strong Work EthicHelp me strengthen: Internally Referent with External CheckI want to develop: Self Confidence vs Self EsteemI want to grow in: ResilienceI'd like to build: Manages Anxiety and ConfidenceHelp me strengthen: UnInsultabilityI want to develop: Mental Positioning - Captain's SkillI want to grow in: Meaningful and High Quality PracticeI'd like to build: Quality Mental PreparationHelp me strengthen: Simplify ComplexityI want to develop: Active Identity ShaperI want to grow in: Flow State Management in the Zone

You Be Like Jesus Too

I want to grow in: JoyI'd like to build: PeaceHelp me strengthen: RighteousnessI want to develop: FriendlinessI want to grow in: GratitudeI'd like to build: EnthusiasmHelp me strengthen: EncouragementI want to develop: ForgivenessI want to grow in: InitiativeI'd like to build: DiligenceHelp me strengthen: OptimismI want to develop: Self-ConfidentI want to grow in: DiscernmentI'd like to build: WisdomHelp me strengthen: CompetentI want to develop: SympathyI want to grow in: ResponsibilityI'd like to build: GenerosityHelp me strengthen: PerseveranceI want to develop: PatienceI want to grow in: Audacity, DaringI'd like to build: ThoughtfulnessHelp me strengthen: TrustworthinessI want to develop: AttentivenessI want to grow in: Self-controlI'd like to build: AvailabilityHelp me strengthen: FaithI want to develop: ObedienceI want to grow in: GentleI'd like to build: HumilityHelp me strengthen: ContentmentI want to develop: RespectI want to grow in: HonestyI'd like to build: Pure

You Be Value Driven Too

I want to grow in: Accepting DifferenceI'd like to build: ResponsibilityHelp me strengthen: ForgivenessI want to develop: PerseveranceI want to grow in: Self ControlI'd like to build: HonestyHelp me strengthen: CompassionI want to develop: Second Chances

You Be Virtuous Too

I want to grow in: Happiness AwarenessI'd like to build: Curiosity, Interest in the WorldHelp me strengthen: Love of LearningI want to develop: Judgement, Critical Thinking, Open-MindednessI want to grow in: Ingenuity, Originality, Practical Intelligence, Street SmartsI'd like to build: Social Intelligence, Personal Intelligence, Emotional IntelligenceHelp me strengthen: PerspectiveI want to develop: Valor and BraveryI want to grow in: Perseverance, Industry, DiligenceI'd like to build: Integrity, Genuineness, HonestyHelp me strengthen: Kindness and GenerosityI want to develop: Loving and Allowing Oneself to be LovedI want to grow in: Citizenship, Duty, Teamwork, LoyaltyI'd like to build: Fairness and EquityHelp me strengthen: LeadershipI want to develop: Self-controlI want to grow in: Prudence, Discretion, CautionI'd like to build: Humility and ModestyHelp me strengthen: Appreciation of Beauty and ExcellenceI want to develop: GratitudeI want to grow in: Hope, Optimism, Future-MindednessI'd like to build: Spirituality, Sense of Purpose, Faith, ReligiousnessHelp me strengthen: Forgiveness and MercyI want to develop: Playfulness and HumorI want to grow in: Zest, Passion, Enthusiasm

You Be Well Too

I want to grow in: Physical WellnessI'd like to build: Emotional WellnessHelp me strengthen: Intellectual WellnessI want to develop: Occupational WellnessI want to grow in: Social WellnessI'd like to build: Spiritual Wellness

You Be Gritty Too

I want to grow in: PerseveranceI'd like to build: Passion for Long-Term Goals

You Be Hopeful Too

I want to grow in: Hope AwarenessI'd like to build: GoalsHelp me strengthen: WillpowerI want to develop: WaypowerI want to grow in: OptimismI'd like to build: Perception of ControlHelp me strengthen: Perceived Problem-Solving AbilityI want to develop: CompetitivenessI want to grow in: Self-EsteemI'd like to build: Positive AffectivityHelp me strengthen: Negative Affectivity

You Be Resilient Too

I want to grow in: Adversity NavigationI'd like to build: Stress ManagementHelp me strengthen: Emotional RegulationI want to develop: Growth from ChallengeI want to grow in: Bouncing BackI'd like to build: Social SupportHelp me strengthen: Meaning-MakingI want to develop: Flexible ThinkingI want to grow in: Self-EfficacyI'd like to build: Hope & Optimism

You Be Mindful Too

I want to grow in: Present Moment AwarenessI'd like to build: Non-Judgmental ObservationHelp me strengthen: Breath AwarenessI want to develop: Body AwarenessI want to grow in: Emotional AwarenessI'd like to build: AcceptanceHelp me strengthen: Letting GoI want to develop: CompassionI want to grow in: GratitudeI'd like to build: Peace

You Be Creative Too

I want to grow in: Creative ConfidenceI'd like to build: Divergent ThinkingHelp me strengthen: InnovationI want to develop: Artistic ExpressionI want to grow in: Problem FindingI'd like to build: ExperimentationHelp me strengthen: Flow StatesI want to develop: Intrinsic MotivationI want to grow in: Creative Habits

You Be Emotionally Intelligent Too

I want to grow in: Self-AwarenessI'd like to build: Self-RegulationHelp me strengthen: Social AwarenessI want to develop: Relationship ManagementI want to grow in: EmpathyI'd like to build: MotivationHelp me strengthen: Emotional RecognitionI want to develop: Emotional ExpressionI want to grow in: Conflict ResolutionI'd like to build: Stress Management

You Be Connected Too

I want to grow in: Authentic ConnectionI'd like to build: VulnerabilityHelp me strengthen: Trust BuildingI want to develop: Active ListeningI want to grow in: EmpathyI'd like to build: Support SystemsHelp me strengthen: Conflict ResolutionI want to develop: IntimacyI want to grow in: CommunityI'd like to build: Belonging

You Be Balanced Too

I want to grow in: Life Balance Across DomainsI'd like to build: Priority ManagementHelp me strengthen: Boundary SettingI want to develop: Time & Energy ManagementI want to grow in: Integration vs. SeparationI'd like to build: SimplificationHelp me strengthen: Rest & RecoveryI want to develop: Multiple Life RolesI want to grow in: Harmony & AlignmentI'd like to build: Sustainable Living

You Be Authentic Too

I want to grow in: Self-Knowledge & AwarenessI'd like to build: Genuine ExpressionHelp me strengthen: Congruence (Inner-Outer Alignment)I want to develop: Integrity & ValuesI want to grow in: Courageous VulnerabilityI'd like to build: Self-AcceptanceHelp me strengthen: Transparent CommunicationI want to develop: Living My TruthI want to grow in: Being Real vs. Being PerfectI'd like to build: Authentic Relationships

You Be Compassionate Too

I want to grow in: Self-Compassion (Self-kindness, Common humanity, Mindfulness)I'd like to build: Compassion for OthersHelp me strengthen: Loving-Kindness PracticeI want to develop: Non-JudgmentI want to grow in: Warmth & CareI'd like to build: GentlenessHelp me strengthen: Service & AltruismI want to develop: Empathic ConcernI want to grow in: Compassionate ActionI'd like to build: Reducing Suffering

You Be Purposeful Too

I want to grow in: Life Purpose DiscoveryI'd like to build: Meaning-MakingHelp me strengthen: Significance & MatteringI want to develop: Contribution & ServiceI want to grow in: Legacy BuildingI'd like to build: Values ClarificationHelp me strengthen: Calling & VocationI want to develop: Impact & InfluenceI want to grow in: Intentional LivingI'd like to build: Direction & Goals

You Be A Learner Too

I want to grow in: Growth MindsetI'd like to build: Curiosity & WonderHelp me strengthen: Learning StrategiesI want to develop: Mastery & ExpertiseI want to grow in: Deliberate PracticeI'd like to build: Reflection & Meta-LearningHelp me strengthen: Adaptation & FlexibilityI want to develop: Knowledge AcquisitionI want to grow in: Skill BuildingI'd like to build: Learning from Failure

Life Wisdom Series

Real situations to move through — name what you are facing and the advisor will walk with you.

Navigate Career Transition

Help me navigate: Starting a New JobI'm facing: Facing Job Loss/UnemploymentI need guidance with: Making a Career ChangeI'm going through: Seeking Promotion/AdvancementHelp me navigate: Dealing with Workplace ConflictI'm facing: Experiencing BurnoutI need guidance with: Starting My Own BusinessI'm going through: Asking for a Raise

Navigate Relationship Change

Help me navigate: Starting a New RelationshipI'm facing: Deepening an Existing RelationshipI need guidance with: Navigating Conflict in RelationshipsI'm going through: Rebuilding TrustHelp me navigate: Making a Relationship DecisionI'm facing: Dealing with Toxic RelationshipsI need guidance with: Long-Distance Relationships

Navigate Grief & Loss

Help me navigate: Death of a Loved OneI'm facing: Loss of a PetI need guidance with: Miscarriage/Pregnancy LossI'm going through: Loss of a FriendHelp me navigate: Anniversary of LossI'm facing: Supporting Someone Who Is GrievingI need guidance with: Complicated GriefI'm going through: Moving Forward After LossHelp me navigate: Sudden/Unexpected Loss

Navigate Parenting Challenges

Help me navigate: New Parenthood/Infant StageI'm facing: Terrible Twos/Toddler ChallengesI need guidance with: School-Age ChallengesI'm going through: Teenage YearsHelp me navigate: Special Needs ParentingI'm facing: Single ParentingI need guidance with: Blended Family ChallengesI'm going through: Parenting Adult Children

Navigate Divorce & Separation

Help me navigate: Deciding to DivorceI'm facing: Going Through the ProcessI need guidance with: Co-Parenting After DivorceI'm going through: Healing EmotionallyHelp me navigate: Financial RecoveryI'm facing: Dealing with Extended FamilyI need guidance with: Dating AgainI'm going through: Creating New Life

Navigate Retirement Transition

Help me navigate: Planning for RetirementI'm facing: The First Year of RetirementI need guidance with: Finding Purpose in RetirementI'm going through: Health & Wellness FocusHelp me navigate: Relationship Changes in RetirementI'm facing: Financial ConcernsI need guidance with: Staying Engaged & Connected

Navigate Illness & Health Challenges

Help me navigate: Receiving a DiagnosisI'm facing: Treatment & RecoveryI need guidance with: Living with Chronic IllnessI'm going through: Supporting a Sick Loved OneHelp me navigate: Managing Medical DecisionsI'm facing: Dealing with PainI need guidance with: Mental Health ChallengesI'm going through: Health Anxiety

Navigate Financial Stress

Help me navigate: Dealing with DebtI'm facing: Job Loss & Income LossI need guidance with: Building Emergency FundI'm going through: Making Major PurchasesHelp me navigate: Unexpected ExpensesI'm facing: Financial Arguments in RelationshipsI need guidance with: Building Wealth

Navigate Conflict & Disagreement

Help me navigate: Family ConflictI'm facing: Workplace DisputesI need guidance with: Friend DisagreementsI'm going through: Neighbor DisputesHelp me navigate: Difficult ConversationsI'm facing: Standing My Ground

Navigate Loss & Endings

Help me navigate: Job/Career LossI'm facing: Loss of HomeI need guidance with: Loss of Dream/GoalI'm going through: Loss of Health/AbilityHelp me navigate: Loss of FriendshipI'm facing: Loss of IdentityI need guidance with: Financial Loss

Navigate Success & Achievement

Help me navigate: Achieving a Major GoalI'm facing: Sudden Success/RecognitionI need guidance with: Maintaining SuccessI'm going through: Success-Related StressHelp me navigate: Sharing My SuccessI'm facing: Setting New Goals After Success

Navigate Failure & Setback

Help me navigate: Business FailureI'm facing: Academic FailureI need guidance with: Relationship FailureI'm going through: Failed Project/GoalHelp me navigate: Public Failure/EmbarrassmentI'm facing: Repeated FailuresI need guidance with: Fear of Failing Again

Navigate Change & Uncertainty

Help me navigate: Unexpected ChangeI'm facing: Initiating ChangeI need guidance with: Resisting ChangeI'm going through: Major Life TransitionHelp me navigate: Organizational ChangeI'm facing: Cultural/Environmental ChangeI need guidance with: Personal TransformationI'm going through: Change Fatigue

Navigate Uncertainty & the Unknown

Help me navigate: Career UncertaintyI'm facing: Financial UncertaintyI need guidance with: Relationship UncertaintyI'm going through: Health UncertaintyHelp me navigate: Global/World UncertaintyI'm facing: Waiting for Answers

Navigate Leadership Challenges

Help me navigate: New Leadership RoleI'm facing: Leading Through CrisisI need guidance with: Difficult Team DynamicsI'm going through: Making Tough DecisionsHelp me navigate: Leading ChangeI'm facing: Performance ManagementI need guidance with: Leadership Burnout

Navigate Performance Pressure

Help me navigate: Competition/Game DayI'm facing: Presentation/SpeakingI need guidance with: Exam/Test PerformanceI'm going through: High-Stakes MeetingHelp me navigate: Performance AnxietyI'm facing: Consistency Under PressureI need guidance with: Recovery After Poor Performance

Navigate Creative Blocks & Flow

Help me navigate: Creative BlockI'm facing: Starting New ProjectI need guidance with: Creative CriticismI'm going through: PerfectionismHelp me navigate: Finding My VoiceI'm facing: Creative Burnout

Navigate Daily Wellbeing

Help me navigate: Stress ManagementI'm facing: Sleep IssuesI need guidance with: Energy ManagementI'm going through: Emotional WellnessHelp me navigate: Physical HealthI'm facing: Mental ClarityI need guidance with: Social ConnectionI'm going through: Work-Life Balance

Navigate Purpose & Meaning

Help me navigate: Finding My PurposeI'm facing: Feeling LostI need guidance with: Midlife Purpose CrisisI'm going through: Living My PurposeHelp me navigate: Purpose vs. PracticalityI'm facing: Making a DifferenceI need guidance with: Legacy & Contribution

Navigate Daily Life

Help me navigate: Morning RoutineI'm facing: Evening Wind-DownI need guidance with: Managing Daily StressI'm going through: Making DecisionsHelp me navigate: Dealing with Difficult PeopleI'm facing: Time ManagementI need guidance with: Motivation StrugglesI'm going through: ProcrastinationHelp me navigate: Self-Care PracticesI'm facing: Gratitude Practice
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